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Francia Raisa attends the MACRO Pre-Oscar Party at Citizen News Hollywood

Francia Raisais opening up about the impact online bullying is having on her.

“I think the one that probably hurt the most was, ‘I hope someone goes up your p—y and rips out your other kidney, you f —ing whore,’ " Raisa toldTMZ.

“The only thing I’m going to say is in no way, shape or form does anyone condone bullying, especially Selena,” theHow I Met Your Fatherstar continued. “She literally has a whole nonprofit dedicated tomental health[Rare Impact Fund], and I believeRare Beautyeven just had an event for mental health. So the fact that I’m now being bullied as I am, it’s messing with me mentally.”

“To me, it’s not what anyone wants for someone. She’s literally out there saying, ‘Please stop,’ so I don’t understand why it’s not stopping — not just for me, but others that are also being antagonized online,” she added.

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Selena Gomez (L) and Francia Raisa attend Billboard Women In Music 2017

“I’m very happy,” theGrown-ishstar explained. “I’m living my life. I’m sending love to everyone. I understand. I’ve been a hardcore fan of people growing up myself.”

She added, “I totally, totally, totally get it, but it’s not nice. I would say, not just with me, but with anyone, please stop.”

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Honoree Francia Raisa, Impact Award for Performance in a Sitcom, attends the NHMC 2022 Impact Awards Gala

The actresses, who haveknown each other since 2007, were rumored to have had a falling out late last year after Gomez spoke toRolling Stoneand said that she doesn’t have many famous friends and only listedTaylor Swiftas an example of a close friendship.

After E! Newsused the first half of the quotein an Instagram post celebrating Swift and Gomez’s friendship, Raisa reportedly commented, “Interesting,” before later deleting the comment.

TheOnly Murders in the Buildingstarreceived a kidney transplantfrom Raisa nearly six years ago after struggling with life-threatening health issues due tocomplications from lupus.

“My best friend. Her name is Francia. She said, ‘No, I am absolutely getting tested,’ " recalled Gomez in the documentary. “And within three days, she went to get tested, and she was a match. And it was one of those moments where I felt watched over. I know I was so, so, so lucky.”

She continued, “I understand that that doesn’t happen for a lot of people, and I know the outcome of some of those situations and how serious they are, so I do not take it lightly that it’s happened to me that way.”

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The decision, added the actress and musician, has made her “in debt” to Raisa.

source: people.com