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Meghan King Edmonds

Meghan Kingdoesn’t want her romantic relationships to shape how people see her.

When Hall, 52, asked the formerReal Housewives of Orange Countystar whether she is dating now, King affirmed she was — but told Hall she has no interest in kissing and telling… at least not in specifics.

“That’s why I’m doing the podcast, to talk about it,” teased King. “But no names will be named.”

King relaunched herIntimate Knowledgepodcast — which debuted in January 2020 but had not released an episode since April 2021 — on Monday. This week’s guest wasCatfishhostNev Schulman, with whom King discussed dating (and even went on a date years ago).

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Meghan King Edmonds attends the 28th Annual Elton John AIDS Foundation Academy Awards Viewing Party sponsored by IMDb, Neuro Drinks and Walmart on February 09, 2020 in West Hollywood, California.

During a conversation about open relationships and ethical non-monogamy, King reflected on how her traditional upbringing may have shaped her dating life now.

“It’s interesting because the way that I grew up was very traditional — all the way through I went to Catholic school,” she told Schulman, 37. “But I’ve hooked up with women… I’m not a lesbian, I must be somewhere on the gay spectrum. I mean we all are, everyone is.”

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She continued, “I have had fun experiences, but I don’t look at women and think of them sexually…. But, like, I can be in the moment — but like it’s just a moment, it’s a passing moment. I think it’s a fun thing or something, it’s not I’m interested in this for life, for monogamy. I can’t even imagine that with another woman.”

But, she noted, “When I’m laying in my bed with my vibrator or something, I’m not thinking of a woman. I’m thinking of a man every time.”

source: people.com