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Tamra Judge, Meghan King

Tamra Judgerevealed how formerReal Housewives of Orange CountycostarMeghan Kingis coping after her split from husbandCuffe Owens

On Tuesday’s episode of herTwo T’s In A Podpodcast, Judge, 54, told co-hostTeddi Mellencamp Arroyaveand guestBrandi Glanvillethat King is “devastated” over the breakup.

“I did reach out to her and I’m not going to disclose what she said, but she’s devastated,” said Judge. “They met on an app. Dated a few weeks, had this whirlwind romance and then, decided to get married. From what I understand, he’s in L.A. and she’s in St. Louis. So that’s going to be challenging in itself.”

“We’ve all met somebody, fell in love and thought, ‘This is The One.’ And then afterward, you’re like, ‘Ugh, thank God I didn’t marry him!’ " she continued. “… You have to be careful when you have children.”

“She’s truly devastated. It’s not what she wanted, so it’s sad,” Judge added. “Can you imagine publicly dealing with that? People are like, ‘Told you so,’ or ‘That was too soon.’ She’s probably dealing with all that, beating herself up and being sad.”

During the podcast, Judge joked: “I’m wondering, will the president be making an official statement?”

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Weeks before disclosing the breakup, King hadasked her followers for “marriage tips.”

“We sent the kids to stay at grandma and grandpa’s, we got a hotel 3 miles from our house, and I slipped into the pajamas I’ve been waiting to wear for a special occasion,” she wroteon Instagramon Dec. 3. “We feel like we’ve been married for a million years (thanks to marrying later in life and with a lot of history and, well, kids) so a two month anniversary staycation was called for.”

“Tomorrow real life commences but a few hours in a hotel @lemeridienstlclayton will do a new marriage good,” she added. “Please, give us more good marriage tips!”

King was previously married to lawyer Brad McDill from 2007 to 2011 andJim Edmondsfrom 2014 to 2019, though their divorce was finalized in May. She shares daughter Aspen, 5, and twin sons Hart and Hayes, both 3½, with Edmonds.

source: people.com