JanelleandKody Brownclashed in a major way during this week’sSister Wivesepisode.
“I’m making all the sacrifices and I’m asking everybody else to simply meet that level of sacrifice so that the family can exist,” said Kody, adding that “anything” he can do to prevent possible COVID-19 exposure amongst the family is “a smart idea.”
Janelle accused Kody of being “aggressive” with her as they complained about how they’ve failed to listen to each other’s concerns. Before wrapping up the chat, Kody suggested that their sons Garrison and Gabriel should potentially move out so that he can continue to come over.
When Janelle later relayed Kody’s rules to her sons, Gabriel expressed how “tired” he is of their father’s “stupid games.” Garrison added that Kody is acting like “a child” and that he needs to “figure out how not to tear apart his family over something so stupid.” They additionally threatened to call their dad to address their dissatisfaction with his protocols.
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Both Gabriel and Garrison refused to spend Thanksgiving with Kody. In turn, Janelle and her sons agreed to see whether it was possible to gather separately with Christine and her children. (Christine was mulling over whether she’ll be in town for the holiday inlast week’s episode.)
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Kody’s COVID-19 safety rules came up again as he met with his wives to finalize their Thanksgiving plans.
At the beginning of the discussion, Janelle said Christine’s plans will ultimately “make or break” what her children want to do for the holiday. Christine then revealed she will not be around for Thanksgiving but she’ll follow the rules to celebrate Christmas with the entire family.
Kody said he will “respect” everyone’s decisions but pointed out that they all “have an obligation to a very large amount of people” to keep their family functional. The patriarch then said he’ll no longer regulate how his wives choose to live their lives, though he requested they “consider a much bigger picture.”
“No guilt trip, just a little prick to your conscious and you guys decide what you do,” he continued. “I’m not going to tell this family how they do it. I am going to lead the way that I think is the right way.”
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To that point, Janelle said she would “be alone” at Thanksgiving if she stayed in town. But Kody said her being on her own is a result of how she’s allowed her sons to behave within her household.
After Kody said his parting words, Janelle stood up to head out. She stopped midway as Christine declared she has a “clear conscience” about the choice she’s made for Thanksgiving.
“I’ve told you this so that you can share it with your children so that they can understand the perspective instead of making phone calls to me, telling me, ‘Dad. Hey, your rules are taking a toll on our family,’ " he said to Christine, referencing a call he had with Janelle’s sons. “You can continue in the vein of your little world, but I want you to understand mine.”
Janelle chimed in to suggest that Kody is seemingly trying to “guilt trip” her over the choices she has made. “You don’t think I’m aware? You don’t think I’m being careful?” she asked.

Kody requested for Janelle to “respect” the “big picture” regarding his COVID-19 guidelines, but she was less than amused. “You know, f— off,” she said before walking away.
“Janelle’s living in a home where her kids are adults and they’re making the decision to hang out socially,” said Christine, whoannounced her split from Kodyin November ahead of the season 16 premiere.
“She’s got you on one end of the spectrum and then maybe Gabe on the other end of the spectrum. She probably feels different every day. She’s getting crap from both sides. Your speech was very forceful. I know you were probably trying to be polite and she probably has to deal with that kind of crap from her kids all day long,” she said.
Kody, in turn, said he felt he was being “blamed” for everything.
Janelle added that Kody’s being “condescending” toward her as if she’s making “irresponsible decisions” amid the pandemic. “It’s frustrating to me that he’s trying to make it sound like I’m all these horrible things,” she said.
Sister Wivesairs Sundays (10 p.m. ET) on TLC.
source: people.com